my stepdaughter A. I have been debating all month on what to say on this subject. It is a very touchy and difficult issue in my life that I tend to step around it at all cost. She is a very trying child, but does have her good points too. I am not going to say much else here because in times past by both readers, family members and general idiots, I have been left nasty comments and told hurtful things. I try to look for something to be thankful for in all things, and while revieiwing what I was going to write when I came to her, I did find several things in which I am deciding to keep personal. For some reason, because I am her stepmom people have no problem holding back the over critical remarks. I am tired of everything I say and do being analyzed for some evil intention that I must have against her, so I decided when I started up my blog again this past year that I would just leave her out for the most part. I am sure in some way some people are judging that too. One thing I have learned when it comes to the subject of A, I just can’t win, so I won’t play the game anymore. But let it be said, I am thankful for her. enough said.